SENSUALITY IS NOT SEXUALITY! THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE.

Sensuality is the enjoyment, expression,or pursuit of physical, especially sexual or pleasure. Sensuality is the condition of being pleasing or fulfilment to the senses. It is the ability to fully experience one's senses. Smelling, hearing, seeing, tasting, touching and feeling combine to awaken the body and can strongly contribute to a sexual connection. Sensuality is affected by the level of stimulation. Sensuality is a way of embracing your inner core or being that promotes self love that gives you confidence and power. Sensuality is all about you and nothing about your sexuality or sex.

TIPS TO BEING YOUR SENSUAL, SEXY AND CONFIDENT SELF:

Walking with confidence: The way you walk can tell a lot about the level of your self-esteem and confidence.

Practising some feminine or seductive dance: Dancing is a way of expression. People can see your confidence in your dance moves. It wouldn't hurt to introduce some seductive dancing in the bedroom to spice up your love life.

Loving your body: Loving your body in a world where people are body-shamed with reckless abandon is huge accomplishment. Loving your body promotes confidence and high self-esteem.

Showing a little cleavage: Showing a little cleavage is sexy and draws people's attention.

Practising self-care rituals: Taking time out to pamper yourself is not vanity. It is sanity! People treat you like you treat you. You owe yourself the love you so freely give to other people. Aside chasing money like rat race, you must pause sometimes to take care of yourself. Take out time to go to the spa for beauty regimen that relaxes your nerves. Such as manicure, pedicure, massage, sauna,face or body waxing, skin exfoliation, eyebrow threading et al. Spend money on yourself the way you give out to those you love. You don't necessarily have to dress expensive, but dress well, clean and neat. People see you before they hear you.

Self talk: People can see your self-worth and confidence from what you say about yourself. It is not arrogance or pride to speak well of yourself. Talk well of yourself the same way you talk well of the people you love. let your compassion include you. Celebrate every little achievement.

SEXUALITY:

Sexuality is diverse and personal, and it is an important part of who you are. Discovering your sexuality can be a very liberating, exciting and positive experience. Sexuality is not about who have sex with, or how you have it. It is about your sexual feeling, thoughts, attractions and behaviour towards other people. You can find other people physically, sexually or emotionally attractive, and all those feelings are a part of your sexuality. Some people attracted to the opposite sex, same sex, objects et al. That is their sexuality. Sadly, some people experience discrimination due to their secuality.

In conclusion, there is a huge difference between sensuality and sexuality, but many people often misconstrue both. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being sensual. Sensuality is power that every woman ought to have, but many people see it as being promiscuous and tend to shame women who are brave enough to embrace their sensuality. A sensual woman is a woman who is fully in charge of all her senses and can use her power of imagination to achieve whatever she wants and not necessarily needing a man. Being sensual is not all about sex!