Orgasm is a climax of sexual excitement, characterized by feelings of pleasure centered in the genitals and (in men) expressed as an accompaniment to ejaculate.
Orgasm is not a gift from one partner to another, but a personal experience with an individual or a collective performance. Individually, many people can achieve orgasm on their own without a partner by masturbating.
If an individual can achieve orgasm on his or her own, that simply means each person has a role to play when it comes coitus. So, it all depends on the chemistry or sexual compatibility of the partners involved.
So ladies, in choosing a life partner, what comes first to you?
Orgasm is secondary compared to whether that is who you want to be the father of your yet unborn children...
Orgasm is secondary compared to if that man respects and adores you....
Orgasm is secondary compared to whether that relationship gives you peace of mind....
Orgasm doesn't pay tuition or bills...
this is not relegate orgasm to the background, but do you know good sex is one reason some women are stuck in abusive relationship/marriage?
Narcissistic men are very manipulative and sometimes use sex as a weapon? After each episode after each episode of abuse, some lure the women back with good sex or gift! Another thing they do is shed crocodile tears claiming it's because they love you!
Hard working people don't have sex every day! Some happily married couples don't have sex everyday. Have you ever wondered why poor people have more children that rich people?
Not every time you have sex you should expect an orgasm. Sometimes, just Sleeping with someone you love and having a good conversation and end up doing the minimal sex without an orgasm is okay. Heck!! organism is good, but relationship/marriage goes beyond a man being able to
'give you" orgasm. It is not a gift. It is a body reaction!
Plan your life on your own term. Know what's important to you! It's okay to want it differently. There's no particular way of living life. The end justifies the means. All that matters is that you're happy with your decision for your life.
Single women are doing bad all by themselves now! Know your body and learn how to pleasure yourself. You can also apply the skills with ya husband or boyfriend. It takes two to tango!
Let no one deceive you that it a man's duty to make sure you have an orgasm. You should know your body and know how to participate and communicate what you want to your partner. If you can have orgasm without a man's presence, it should be easier with your partner, you must hustle for own orgasm as the man is hustling for his own. Don't just lie there expecting it on a platter...
I personally believe that blaming men for not giving you orgasm is an an entitlement issue or
motional blackmail.
ORGASM IS NOT A GIFT. Move your body and get to work if you want orgasm sister. There's no shame in the game of sex if you want orgasm. IT'S 50-50.....
What is your take on this issue?
Will orgasm pay the bond or the children's school fees? Marriage or even a relationship is not all about sex, sex, sex, there is so much more to consider. My only prayers is that our daughters, sisters and nieces have the sense to choose right.
They are both very important....Love/sex only doesn't sustain a relationship.
Interesting question! The other day a YouTuber went around asking women across all ages who will they settle with, a good looking man, good job but small "pinky" or a fluffy looking guy, unstable job but 7" and good bedmatics? Of all 20 women, only one picked the one with small pinky. This goes to shoe most women prioritize sex over other things.